Are you tired of feeling stuck in a relationship cycle you can’t get out of? Are you ready to break these patterns for good?
Are you tired of feeling stuck in a relationship cycle you can’t get out of? Are you ready to break these patterns for good?

Tired of spending 40, 50, 60 years of your life stuck in the same cycle? No matter how many decades of talk therapy you have done you are still not getting the results you are looking for. If that is you, you are in the right place.
If you experience...
• Attracting the same toxic partners
• Ignoring the red flags
• Emotional rollercoasters
• Equating love with suffering
• Emotional enmeshment
• Never being able to fully commit
You are not alone. There is nothing wrong with you. These behaviors are survival adaptations. And it is all revisable!

Tired of spending 40, 50, 60 years of your life stuck in the same cycle? No matter how many decades of talk therapy you have done you are still not getting the results you are looking for. If that is you, you are in the right place.
If you experience...
• Attracting the same toxic partners
• Ignoring the red flags
• Emotional rollercoasters
• Equating love with suffering
• Emotional enmeshment
• Never being able to fully commit
You are not alone. There is nothing wrong with you. These behaviors are survival adaptations. And it is all revisable!
Your relationship with your primary caregiver set the foundation for how you experience love as an adult. Check out the 3 insecure attachment styles below and how they sabotage love and see which one resonates the most with you.
Anxious Pre-Occupied
Avoidant
Fearful-Avoidant
Jess battled with her own relationship self-sabotage and was determined to put an end to it. And she did! After experiencing the power of this transformational work she designed a 4-month system called "Removing Subconscious Blocks to Love," which combines 1-on-1 personalized sessions, an at home system to do from the comfort of your home on your time, and one-on-one support with Jess in between sessions. Not to mention unlimited access to group healing work for life. Spots are limited. Interested in taking the next step together, then schedule your free call below.

I've suffered from childhood abandonment pain for over 40 years, feeling like a victim with no right to exist, stuck in 2-year-old emotional maturity, total emptiness, and not belonging anywhere. Jess went right to the root cause directly to heal my deep abandonment wound. I feel more secure in myself, my triggers are more manageable, and I know deep down that how other's treat me is not about me.

Klara, Europe
We changed so much on the inside. It was amazing to me how quickly it happened, how quickly it shifted. We changed so much in just 4 sessions! And I was shocked because I had this pattern running for 35 years. I am so proud that I have been able to change this pattern. I can now say that I am happily married and have achieved my goal of finding a partner I can spend my life with.

Candace, USA
I feel a lot more secure in myself, where before I wouldn’t have been able to speak for what I needed or put down a boundary. I am ok with someone going if it doesn’t work for them. I would rather do that and possibly lose the person then do what I have been doing. My emotional rollercoasters are more manageable and I am able to regulate on my own. I can set boundaries, and feel secure without people-pleasing.

Leslie, USA
Jess battled with her own relationship self-sabotage and was determined to put an end to it. And she did! After experiencing the power of this transformational work she designed a 4-month system called "Removing Subconscious Blocks to Love," which combines 1-on-1 personalized sessions, an at home system to do from the comfort of your home on your time, and one-on-one support with Jess in between sessions. Not to mention unlimited access to group healing work for life. Spots are limited. Interested in taking the next step together, then schedule your free call below.


I've suffered from childhood abandonment pain for over 40 years, feeling like a victim with no right to exist, stuck in 2-year-old emotional maturity, total emptiness, and not belonging anywhere. Jess went right to the root cause directly to heal my deep abandonment wound. I feel more secure in myself, my triggers are more manageable, and I know deep down that how other's treat me is not about me.
Klara, Europe

We changed so much on the inside. It was amazing to me how quickly it happened, how quickly it shifted. We changed so much in just 4 sessions! And I was shocked because I had this pattern running for 35 years. I am so proud that I have been able to change this pattern. I can now say that I am happily married and have achieved my goal of finding a partner I can spend my life with.
Candace, USA

I feel a lot more secure in myself, where before I wouldn’t have been able to speak for what I needed or put down a boundary. I am ok with someone going if it doesn’t work for them. I would rather do that and possibly lose the person then do what I have been doing. My emotional rollercoasters are more manageable and I am able to regulate on my own. I can set boundaries, and feel secure without people-pleasing.
Leslie, USA
I help individuals reprogram their minds to break free from self-sabotage.
Our attachment style is formed between us and our primary caregivers. It sets the blueprint for how we operate in love. Watch the videos below to learn more about each of the insecure attachment styles and see which one aligns with you.
Anxious Ambivalent
Avoidant
Disorganized
Our attachment style is formed between us and our primary caregivers. It sets the blueprint for how we operate in love. Watch the videos below to learn more about each of the insecure attachment styles and see which one aligns with you.
Anxious Ambivalent
Avoidant
Disorganized
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